If you are one of the many black women dating black guys and want to keep them interested then you might want to read on. Fortunately, ebony dating can be now be done via the internet. This can make your search a little easier but remember that the majority of the process will still rest heavily upon your actions. After you know where to look for a black date, the next step that you might want to consider is how to attract them and keep them glued to you. It’s not as easy as it sounds.
For black women that are dating black guys, here are some few tricks that you can do to attract them and keep them interested to you. Remember that for these to work, you have to do them all the way. Don’t chicken out or change your mind or you won’t get the results that you want. Also remember that not everything will work out straight away. Like what they say, “Practice makes perfect”.
First and foremost, if you want to attract a black guy, make him feel that he is the only guy that is getting your attention. Black men, like all other men, have a huge ego. What you must do is feed this ego. Make him feel good about himself. Make him think that he is really good looking and girls would go crazy over him; including you. In dating black guys, you should also start with doing this. Making him feel good about himself and boosting his ego is part of the plan.
The next step is to give him the impression that you are really interested in him. After feeding his ego, feed it some more by making him think that you are crazy about him. Act like a fan girl swooning over Justin Bieber. Ask for his number first. If he happens to ask for your number first, give it to him and act like you are really excited that he asked for your number. Make him think that when you part ways you will be glued to your phone and wait for his call.
Now here is the tricky part. Now that you have fed his ego and made him feel that you are really into him, you should now start playing mind tricks with him. It’s like doing a sudden turn. To do this, act busy all of the sudden. You will need to do this to keep him interested. After all the impressions that you have given him earlier, he will be wondering why you have suddenly changed. He will have other options (other girls to call, etc.) but you will certainly stand out if you ignore him or always act busy; considering the fact that you were so excited when you exchanged phone numbers.
Doing this mind trick on him will keep him interested and begging for the attention/attraction that you were giving him when you first met. Of course, overdoing stuff may lead to him leaving you. Be careful and always keep this in mind when dating black guys.
